This is the time of year when I’d saddle up the pony to head to Cape Girardeau to celebrate Mother’s Birthday Season that centered around Oct. 17. I always felt guilty because I always wanted to head back to Cape at vacation time. In fact, I don’t think we did more than half a dozen trips as a family that didn’t pass through my hometown.
Sometimes we’d end up at Kentucky Lake with Brother Mark.
Other times, it would be at Christmas
This was our first Christmas after getting married in the spring. I put together this photo book for a class project.
The Last Rose of Summer
Kingsway Dr foliage 10-16-2025
I wrote a blog post about the Last Rose of Summer in 2015 after Mother’s death. Friend Shari was over enthusiastic in her pruning of the rose bush, so I’ve had to replace it.
This rose bush next to the mailbox got mowed down by a guy who ran off the road, but it survived that and a near-drought.
Time to whine about walnuts
Kingsway Dr foliage 10-16-2025
Birthday Season is also the time for my annual whine about walnuts. We’ve had a bumper crop again this year. The first year I stayed in Cape by myself, I was freaked out by the sounds of the nuts bouncing off the roof.
If you don’t believe me, here are some of my walnut rants.
I’ve had some yard guys try to time the jungle on the east side of the house. There are still some limbs down, but it look a whole lot better than it did a couple of years ago.
A Furry Lawn Ornament
Phoebe the Bleeping Cat 10-16-2025
Phoebe the Bleeping Cat wasn’t around in the Mother era, but she enjoys playing furry lawn ornament when I let her out.
The forecasters were pretty much right. They promised us a wintery mix, and we got the whole gamut: rain, freezing rain, half an inch of ice and about five inches of snow here on Kingsway in Cape.
Here is my standard photo looking across the street to the Bolton house.
Wib’s emergency
Wib’s BBQ sandwich 01-09-2025
When the weather started to look iffy, I figured I should journey to Wib’s, remembering when I made a similar pilgrimage in 2013.
An outside combo, with French fries, slaw and iced tea fueled me up for a trip to grocery stores.
Empty shelves at Schnucks
I went to Schnucks specifically looking for key limes and bacon-wrapped pork steaks. They had neither.
I asked the guys in the produce and meat departments if they were hiding any, but they said the supply truck hadn’t arrived, but it should be there the next day.
I thought there wasn’t a snowball’s chance in Hades of that happening with the forecasts for the rest of the week.
A combination of supply chain issues and panic buying left many shelves virtually empty. Click on any image to make it larger, then use the arrow keys to move through the gallery.
Studded tires will start you, but not stop you
1966 minor crash on icy street
There was a time when I would have fired up the old 1959 Buick LaSabre station wagon and roamed all over town documenting the wintery weather, but I’m older and wiser, and the Buick has long since gone on to its eternal reward. (Dad gave it to one of his workers to haul firewood on his farm. It was a straight-ahead vehicle, meaning that it no longer worked in reverse.)
Here is where I learned in 1966 that studded snow tires might help you get started on ice, but they didn’t do diddly when it came to stopping.
The guy in the black car was on the wrong side of the road when I was heading down the hill.
Roughly five inches
Snow 01-10-2025
While I was visiting family in South Carolina and Florida over the holidays, the birds emptied about 2/3 of the bird feeders in the back yard. The ice storm froze the ropes and pulleys I use to hoist them past the squirrel zone, so I couldn’t do much for them.
I saw some woodpeckers looking at the few pitiful scraps of suet block, so I managed to replenish that feeder.
I used a measuring cup to fill a feeder down low, then promptly left it hanging on a Shepard’s crook. When I went outside the next morning, it had about five inches of snow in it. I couldn’t get any wind or precipitation readings from my weather station because it was a solid block of ice.
Heated water dish
Snow 01-10-2025
Before Phoebe the Bleeping Cat was granted indoor privileges a couple of winters back, I kept a heated drinking dish for her. I bought a kiddie pool to hold water for all the back yard livestock, but it was frozen so solidly that even a posthole digger wouldn’t break the ice.
The dish stays liquid even if the rest of the world is a white, solid mess.
Cool mailbox
Snow 01-10-2025
After a distracted driver mowed down my mailbox, I replaced it with this bigger one so the carrier doesn’t have to make as many porch deliveries.
USPS has this cool app that lets me see what mail is coming, so I didn’t have to wade through the snow to see there was nothing in the box that was urgent.
Snow covers a multitude of sins
Snow 01-10-2025
Nothing like a fresh blanket of snow to cover up all the ugly parts of my front yard.
Older and wiser, remember?
Snow 01-10-2025
I walked the perimeter of the yard checking for damage, but I was pretty much OK except for some minor limbs down.
I saw several people leaving stores with sleds under their arms, but I opted out of trying to sled down the hill on the west side of the house.
In fact, when I was in Buchheit’s last week, I saw some handy ice cleats that were nice to stick on my rubber boots. I have some hip pain, but I’d prefer not to break what I’ve got.
I came home from grocery shopping to find my mailbox flattened. The guy above mowed down a rose bush, destroyed my mailbox, missed my wife’s van by about a foot, bounced off a manhole cover in my front yard, and kept going down Kingway Drive at 10:14 a.m. on Sept 11.
I’d like to have a serious discussion with the driver about covering the cost of replacing the mailbox.
Dead mailbox
Flattened mailbox 09-11-2024
I thought I’d never have to replace it
When I put it in several years ago, I endeavored to make it as bulletproof as possible. I filled the pipe with concrete and rebar and set it in concrete two feet deep. I wanted some kid with a baseball bat to get a big surprise.
I hoped whoever ran over is going to have some serious body work to fix. They not only literally flattened the box, but they yanked the post out of the ground. I didn’t see a trail of liquids, so the vehicle might have had a strong enough bumper to protect it.
Yanked right out of the ground
Flattened mailbox 09-11-2024
I can view the security camera video, but it’s in a weird format that was going to take more trouble than it was worth to post.
By the way, the driver appeared to be bald or have short hair. If this was a crime show, some tech would be able to pull up the license tag, but I don’t have the skill or equipment to do it.
When the rains stop, I’ll replace it with something even more substantial.
P.S. In case you were wondering, I didn’t have any political signs in the yard.
When I walked out to the car a couple weeks ago, I saw some marble-sized walnuts on the ground, just about the size that would hurt if you stepped on them with your bare feet.
Saturday, I noticed that a branch had snuck its way under my tarp car cover. When I grabbed the clippers, I saw that we’re going to have an early walnut season this year.
I’m not a big fan of walnuts
Walnuts 10-13-2020
Griping about walnuts is a perennial topic for me. See my musings.