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Cape Central High Photos

Ken Steinhoff, Cape Girardeau Central High School Class of 1965, was a photographer for The Tiger and The Girardot, and was on the staff of The Capaha Arrow and The Sagamore at Southeast Missouri State University. He worked as a photographer / reporter (among other things) at The Jackson Pioneer and The Southeast Missourian.

Come here to see photos and read stories (mostly true) about coming of age in Southeast Missouri in the 1960s.

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2011 Birthday Season Day 1

This is Mother’s 90th Birthday Season. David, Diane and Amy Steinhoff came in from Tulsa; Kim Steinhoff-Tidsale and daughters Brynn and Taylor came in from Denver (Casey is due Saturday); Wife Lila and I arrived from WPB (she flew; I drove); Adam, Carly and Graham Steinhoff flew in from West Palm Beach; Matt, Sarah and Malcolm drove up from Palm Beach Gardens. Mark is coming in from St. Louis Saturday.

This is the biggest gathering of Steinhoffs ever. We can no longer hold a family reunion in a phone booth.

Mother had hair appointment

We knew Mother had a hair appointment at 10, so I was given the task of putting out the word as soon as she left the driveway. Within minutes, the whole clan camped out on the porch to surprise her. We waited and waited and waited. Someone suggested that we REALLY surprise her by leaving a message saying that we had all decided to go to lunch. (We carefully noted the name of that person for when it comes time to update the will.)

When the honoree finally arrived, there was much hugging and a few wet eyes. Most of that action was captured in a video for later editing. With the surprise out of the way, there was a general agreement that we were hungry.

A motion to head to Wib’s BBQ in Jackson was made and passed. We took over the joint.

Friendly waitress grabbed camera

A friendly waitress offered to take a photo so I could be in at least one picture. I checked out how close she was to the nearest exit and tried to remember if I had ever stiffed her for a tip, then decided to relinquish my Nikon. She did a pretty good job.

We’re a wired family

Carly and Matt stay connected with the world while Graham exhibits his excitement.

Don’t want to miss anyone

This shot of Amy, Adam, Sarah and the back of Diane’s head insures that everyone is in at least one photo. I want to make sure NOT to offend anyone who might be picking out my Old Folks’ Home in the future.

The fellow in the cap in the background was not part of our gathering.

Missouri Conservation Center great for kids

We decided the kids needed to burn off some energy, so we headed to North County Park, figuring we’d hit the playground.

I suggested we spend a few minutes in the Missouri Conservation Center. The kids and adults loved it.

Malcolm liked building things out of blocks made from tree branches. Then, he and the girls and David were fascinated by a live bee hive with bees flying in and of the hive through a transparent tube in the wall. Malcolm spent 20 minutes trying to spot the queen. David was curious about how long a honey bee lived. (About six weeks per Matt’s Googling.) Since we had seen bees flying around in the butterfly garden out front, Malcolm was able to really made the connection between flowers, bees and honey.

David’s hidden talents

Right next to the block area was a small puppet stage. David started pulling out animal puppets and coming up with an elaborate story about who they were and how they interacted, ending up with a tale about a skunk.

When he finished to a standing ovation (actually, everybody wanted to see another exhibit, so they stood up to leave), I looked behind the stage to see if he had been reading from a script. I am proud to report that he was ad libbing.

Audience was rapt and appreciative

You can tell from the expressions that he did a great job.

We’ll more than likely report on other events. By Sunday, folks will be catching planes and scattering back to their homes.

We’re going to make an effort to get together like this more often. After all, we’d all come together for a funeral. Why not celebrate living instead?

12 comments to 2011 Birthday Season Day 1

  • mary (lewis) schaefer

    Happy Birthday to your great mother.
    This is my mom’s birthday season, also – she will be 102. Our whole clan gathered in Wichita for her 100th and it was fun, too. you’re right – celebrate life.

  • Margi Whitright

    What a wonderful day you all had. We are planning on making it to Wib’s next Saturday for lunch. Since that’s where you ate lunch, I’m guessing it’s a good choice. Happy birthday, Mrs. Steinhoff!

  • Looks like fun! Thanks for letting us share in your family celebration. Your mother is so blessed! Hope the rest of your visit is enjoyable. Can’t wait to see the photos. I am jealous….wish I was there. But I can visit vicariously through your fantastic reporting and photos.

  • Sally Bierbam Dirks

    For those of us who would like to see it, where is the North County Park? My grands would enjoy it, too.

    • North County Park is located on Highway 61 between Cape and Jackson. It’s between I-55 and what we used to call KFVS Hill, across from Memorial Park Cemetery.

      The Missouri Conservation Center is on the north side of the highway and there are playground on both sides.

      There are nature walks, fishing for kids, Christmas decorations at Christmas time, American Flags flying on holidays. I don’t know how many weddings I’ve seen on the walking bridges on the south side.

      If you haven’t been there, you should go.

  • Mary A Seyer

    What a wonderful party for a very “young” 90 year old!
    Loved reading about it and looking at all the pictures. Enjoy this wonderful, fall weather while you are here!

    • I hope this weather hangs on a few more weeks. I’d like to get in some bike riding and some picture-taking when it’s not too hot and not too cold.

      Or, like the Little Bear said when he was sitting on a block of ice, “My tale is told.”

  • Phyllis Hansen

    The area Chambers of Commerce should really contribute $$ to your site for all the publicity you give them!! What you write and the way you write it does more to bring people into the area than all their brochures!
    Happy Birthday Mrs. Steinhoff, and many more!

    • About 18 months ago, I made the rounds of those organizations trying to sell ads.

      Nothing came of it, unfortunately. Some of the folks who like what I’m doing said they have no budget money available for this type of advertising.

      I’ve pretty much stopped knocking on doors. It’s more fun writing stories and taking pictures than playing salesman. (And, I’m much better at the former than the latter.)

  • Marilyn Miller

    I know your mom is enjoying all the festivity and so lucky to have all those lovely grandchildren and great grandchildren there to help celebrate.

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